6 Easy Ways to Date Yourself


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Whether you have a partner or not, self-care is a vital step to understanding and maintaining who you are. It’s just like being your own Valentine! And the best news is that you don’t have to wait for Valentine’s Day. These simple ideas are ways to practice getting to know and date yourself – we could all use a little more love! And when we fill up self-love, we’re more capable to love others. It’s a win-win for everyone. Try one of the ideas below for dating yourself. 

Get Dressed Up

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It’s easy to reserve your best outfits for a special date night with your honey, right? Try getting dressed up just for you! Whether you take yourself out to dinner at a fancy restaurant or order in, it’ s ok to get dolled up and looking your best just for you.

Don’t forget to add in some pretty shoes and accessories! Adorn yourself with pretty jewels cute shoes, being sure to wear the styles that make you swoon. You don’t have to impress anyone else. It’s all for you. It’s fun to get gussied up for someone you love – and that includes yourself!

Get Sexy

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One of the most intimate ways to show you love someone is to get sexy with each other, and the same goes for yourself. Schedule some time or be spontaneous, just be sure to make your own pleasure top of the list. That can mean something simple like having a date with the mirror…in your birthday suit. Set the mood with sensual music, and light a few candles. Everything always looks better by candlelight. Then strip down or put on some sexy lingerie. In fact, use this opportunity to wear something for yourself you may have been keeping on reserve to reveal to a lover. 

Get to Know Yourself

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One of the major aspects of dating is getting to know each other. Truly getting to understand that person on from the inside, out. New couples spend the majority of first dates asking questions and listening to each other in order to do this. Even in healthy long lasting relationships, it’s important to continue to get to know the person you love. That means when dating yourself, it’s important to schedule time to get to know yourself on a deeper level as well.

A few ways to do this are to journal, meditate, take quizzes, etc. You can even work with a coach or counselor to uncover your inner thoughts and feelings. The first step is to get interested and inquisitive about yourself and then make time in your calendar to listen to yourself. Start with asking yourself some questions: What really makes you tick? What are your deepest desires? If you could live anywhere for a year, where would it be? What was your biggest dream as a kid? Ask yourself questions like this and see what comes up!

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