Tips to Help You Fight Less


5 Steps to Fight Less in Your Relationship

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Even the happiest of couples are bound to have their share of fights. It’s only natural that when you spend so much time and share so much of your life with someone else, disagreements are going to come up once in a while. However, if you feel that you and spouse are fighting so much that it is putting a strain on your relationship and on your emotional well-being, then it is time to start doing something about it.

It may not be so easy at first, but if you both follow and stick to these five tips and you’ll be well on your way to a happier and healthier relationship.

Don’t Take Everything Personally

An excellent way to stop many fights before they start is to not take everything your partner says and does so personally. Now, this doesn’t mean that you should let them get away with any behavior that is directly intended to hurt you. Rather, it means that you shouldn’t automatically assume that, for example, their sour mood has anything to do with you. If your partner seems out of sorts, then ask them what is wrong before assuming that they must be upset or angry with you.

Try to Put Your Disagreements in Perspective

Sometimes, your relationship is going to encounter problems that need to be worked through and argued out no matter how painful it may be. However, most of your minor fights are definitely not going to be of this sort. At the beginning of an argument, you should ask yourself if you would actually rather be pursuing the current disagreement than simply making up, forgiving each other, and moving on. If the issue isn’t significant enough to sacrifice your happiness for, then don’t.

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